<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Ton de Graaf]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ton de Graaf
Executive coaching voor C-level executives en senior leiders die onder druk moeten presteren.]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/blank</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2026 00:22:48 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.tondegraaf.nl/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Vitaal thuiswerken: zo doe je dat!]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Nederland werken we gemiddeld zo’n 32 tot 40 uur per week. Velen van ons werken normaliter in een kantooromgeving, maar doen dit nu...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/vitaal-thuiswerken-zo-doe-je-dat</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5eaace2b6adf490017883ed7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2020 13:23:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_4f96f858e0e6430f890887098b9e9e9d~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_800,h_533,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Help de Helden]]></title><description><![CDATA[De Brabantse GGD’en en het Help de Helden team hebben de handen ineen geslagen. Zij hebben het initiatief genomen om zorgprofessionals...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2020/04/24/help-de-helden</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5f75f1ff5acec600172cfeb4</guid><category><![CDATA[Vrijwilligerswerk]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2020 09:38:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_19dfb2832e384afc8fc055f056a8e3fc~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_519,h_505,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[New book: Prepare for your Dream Job;
Career Planning and Management]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this book you will find different techniques and strategies to figure out what your dream job might look like, how to go about landing it]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2019/02/07/new-book-prepare-for-your-dream-job-career-planning-and-management</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee892560b38300175e1a69</guid><category><![CDATA[Career Management]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2019 11:20:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_4811caba40f14ef099dfe5c1443b2a74~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_730,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Leiding geven: Angelsaksische model v.s. Rijnlandse model]]></title><description><![CDATA[Onderstaand artikel las ik op B2Bcontact en is van Benno Rijpkema, Eigenaar van Rijpkema Advies Groep. Hun missie en passie is het...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/03/03/leiding-geven-angelsaksische-model-vs-rijnlandse-model</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925c2f1090017a45ae2</guid><category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2016 13:41:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_a005cb9ea41d41dd9456c320522cc1c8.png/v1/fit/w_600,h_450,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[De klant heeft altijd gelijk...]]></title><description><![CDATA[Een collega van mij schreef een berichtje op Facebook: "Aangekomen in NYC. Hotel blijkt door fout geen kamer meer te hebben. Doen ze niet...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/03/03/de-klant-heeft-altijd-gelijk</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee89252c735100174989a0</guid><category><![CDATA[Leiderschap]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2016 13:30:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_fd476082c0d649f988dce51eacaf0d09.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_575,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ja hoor, we hebben nu ook al een Cloud Coach!]]></title><description><![CDATA["Mogen we even voorstellen: uw persoonlijke Cloud Coach  Om gek van te worden, al die berichten over cloud computing". Zo luidt het...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/03/03/ja-hoor-we-hebben-nu-ook-al-een-cloud-coach</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925333b440017e8eb39</guid><category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2016 13:24:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_0f4dbe51c9ab4ce5b9b646a9b043261d.jpg/v1/fit/w_135,h_135,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[De Moedige Coach.]]></title><description><![CDATA[De leidinggevenden die ik coach beïnvloeden het gedrag van anderen. Aangenomen dat de leidinggevenden van een bedrijf ook de...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/03/03/de-moedige-coach</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee892537f4560017f3de1d</guid><category><![CDATA[Leiderschap]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2016 13:14:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_7960d54f47ac43539f0df1e7375395d1.jpg/v1/fit/w_600,h_427,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Normen en waarden, over ethisch coachen.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ik heb eerder gesproken over authentiek leiderschap en het verdienen van vertrouwen en respect van onze klanten, medewerkers en...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/03/03/normen-en-waarden-over-ethisch-coachen</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925a16531001741a1b6</guid><category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category><category><![CDATA[Leiderschap]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2016 13:07:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_4cec2a09b72649dfaf2d4a23a80f48d7.jpg/v1/fit/w_394,h_265,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ton de Graaf, ChBC™</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why isn’t my coaching practice taking off?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why isn’t my coaching practice taking off? Why is it still hard work to demonstrate the effectiveness of coaching? Why aren’t people lining up on my doorstep?   Let’s find out!   In my unique corner of the coaching world I am privy to the comings and goings of student and professional coaches and all those in between. While my position does not afford me a grand view of the entire coaching industry, it does offer a perspective on a question many coaches are straddling these days: Why isn’t my...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/25/why-isn-t-my-coaching-practice-taking-off</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925e1542700171b640a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2016 14:29:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_ff1b600fc32b443794284e530243680d.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_683,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Leon VanderPol</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ready to future proof your coaching practice?]]></title><description><![CDATA[It seems like every tenth person is becoming a coach, or at least would like to! In the last decade there has been an explosion of coaching accreditations, coaching schools, university degrees, coaching niches and a plethora of self professed guru’s spruiking “How to make a million dollars in your coaching room” programs for the once in a life time price of $19,999!   Being cynical about these emerging trends would be simple but in fact we should celebrate our industry as it evolves from a...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/25/ready-to-future-proof-your-coaching-practice</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925b8ec9800172e56f1</guid><category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2016 14:22:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_415167cbcc3b48588d074e1662e156ef.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Padraig O&apos;Sullivan</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What is the state of my own professionalism?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Playing the role of devil’s advocate for a moment, I’d like to turn the theme of this edition of the WCM e-zine on its head a bit. Instead of discussing “The State of the Profession,” let’s turn the camera around for an inward perspective and focus on the professionals. That’s you, and that’s me. I suggest we ponder this:   What is the State of My Own Professionalism?   Let me be more specific and share a few ideas as we begin to process this line of inquiry in the February edition of the...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/25/what-is-the-state-of-my-own-professionalism</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925652945001746495b</guid><category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2016 14:19:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_4cfdf11534b345e3acdccd1b9ec4e44c.jpg/v1/fit/w_562,h_560,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lyn Christian</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Taking stock – a coaching best practice]]></title><description><![CDATA[Whatever we are attending to, we, as coaches, are always helping our clients clarify intention and develop SMART goals; identify challenges and opportunities, identify and align motivation with vision and action; design action steps nurturing commitment and follow-through, and celebrating success.   Each one of these actions and many related sub-actions begin by “taking stock.”   Our goal, as coaches, is to help our clients arrive at clarity, gain insight and perspective that moves them into...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/25/taking-stock-a-coaching-best-practice</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925d7fbe4001762c1aa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2016 14:16:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_c6e358fa2b444768a9b67f2f1fd6dd31.jpg/v1/fit/w_610,h_335,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Julia von Flotow</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The coaching road is congested]]></title><description><![CDATA[The training and development road that once was less traveled, is becoming more congested with coaching taking centre stage respective to...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/25/the-coaching-road-is-congested</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee89258b49fe00189448b1</guid><category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2016 14:12:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_dee9219a283a4a1995bb43da80bad708.png/v1/fit/w_225,h_225,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Leanne Hoagland-Smith</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Boot camp to boardroom: making a success of leaving the military]]></title><description><![CDATA[How to let go of military life and move on to civic street?   This article  aims to explore, via the story of five former military men...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/13/boot-camp-to-boardroom-making-a-success-of-leaving-the-military</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925e1542700171b6409</guid><pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2016 15:32:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_27b232df855f440ea2a1749c23dc94ad.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Claire Lyell and Antoine Tirard</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Let go, move on – the wisdom of impermanence]]></title><description><![CDATA[OK, can we talk? What’s this about “Letting go, and Moving on”?   Why is this sufficiently an issue in human experience that we have a whole monthly issue of Worldwide Coaching Magazine dedicated to it?   What’s behind this? Why do people find themselves stuck so often in their lives? Whether it’s with work, with family, with relationships or even within your relationship with yourself and your goals, beliefs and values, why do we so often get stuck in such a deep place of impasse that it...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/12/let-go-move-on-the-wisdom-of-impermanence</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925ed13e00017c8d052</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2016 19:09:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_90d7bdbfc5da4b4690c89f44ebec2164.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_463,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Grant Soosalu</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Coaching Wisdom]]></title><description><![CDATA[Essays, Ideas and Explorations on multiple Brain Integration Techniques (mBIT) Coaching.   Sometimes you come across new research that is so exciting that you to want to shout it from the rooftops. Since that isn’t very effective if you want to reach the global coaching community, Grant Soosalu graciously agreed to write a series of articles about mBIT coaching in the Worldwide Coaching Magazine.   Since these articles are so important, we decided to combine them, add new articles to it and...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/04/coaching-wisdom</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee89252c735100174989a1</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2016 12:57:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_857f538f490447e0b98488fba920b368.jpg/v1/fit/w_613,h_870,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Grant Soosalu</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[In the grip? Remember the v.c.r.]]></title><description><![CDATA[https://www.qci-coaching.com In all personal growth work designed to explore the mysteries of inner realm it’s bound to come up sooner or later. It’s that roar of angst and frustration at the sticky grip a deep seeded belief can have.   Arrgggh…all the work I’ve done and it just won’t let go! Years I’ve been working on this and I’m still living it out. Why!?   There needs to be a concerted and consistent effort over a span of time in order to outwork the old belief and inwork the new.  The...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2016/02/04/in-the-grip-remember-the-vcr</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925aad2700017f0fec9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2016 12:52:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_6954d4da45ce43dca0a821f1721d9228.jpg/v1/fit/w_600,h_301,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Leon VanderPol</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Let go of disorganisation, grab hold of productivity]]></title><description><![CDATA[Letting go of disorganisation often means we need a stronger hold of productivity.   To this end, here are tips and tools to use for yourself or with your clients: David Allen, the creator of the Getting Things Done ® methodology recently shared the tools he uses to “get things done”… Read more about grabbing hold of productivity with this and other tools in our current edition!           #productivity]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2015/11/27/invest-now-earn-later</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925d7fbe4001762c1ab</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2016 12:46:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_4cfdf11534b345e3acdccd1b9ec4e44c.jpg/v1/fit/w_562,h_560,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lyn Christian</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Acknowledging value – the key to moving on]]></title><description><![CDATA[To let go and move on or to hold tight and stay stuck, that is the question, if asked with awareness, that can bring us insight and self-recognition.   Engaging our emotions in introspection and self-reflection requires the discipline of compassionate and objective self-observation. Our feelings, when respected in this way, can guide us to the truth of our experience, often resonating with some deep held experience from our past. Read more in this edition of the Worldwide Coaching Magazine.   ...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2015/11/28/time-is-money</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee89258e59d900174e46c8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2016 12:43:59 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_f6aad8069d234091bcea68fc8aca72a8.jpg/v1/fit/w_260,h_194,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Julia von Flotow</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The mental calluses of holding on]]></title><description><![CDATA[How many times do we hold on to all the bad stuff we experience? Someone calls us a name and we hold onto that for years, never forgetting.  Or someone attacks our professional experience?   We, for some reason, just can’t get past those experiences. What happens is our brain becomes so callused by all these “hold on memories” we become impervious to seeing the good, the potential of new opportunities. Our now callused brain acts as an impenetrable barrier and we are stuck in the status quo. ...]]></description><link>https://www.tondegraaf.nl/single-post/2015/11/29/no-more-savings</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5dee8925a16531001741a1b7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2016 12:41:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8de42a_39814496881c4df4ad8ec06b4c521416.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Leanne Hoagland-Smith</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>